Ep.08 The key to magnetism is coherence.

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So, what is magnetism? What does that even mean? We hear this word a lot in groups focused on manifestation, especially in women's groups. I hear a lot of women wanting to be magnetic so that they can attract the right partner, a better job, a more expansive lifestyle, and more resources. In this episode, I'm going to dive deep into this theme through my personal experiences and stories.

Hello and welcome to Radiance, the podcast. My name is Erin, and I'm your host.

All right, friends. I am recording this episode during a potent full moon in Sagittarius. This makes my heart really happy because I am a Sagittarius. The virtues, qualities, and characteristics of Sagittarius resonate deeply with me, and I love them. Sagittarius is the sign of freedom, and I am devoted to freedom and liberation. It is also the sign of truth. Sagittarius is the seeker of truth, relentlessly going far and beyond, into uncharted territories, to uncover truth.

For me, truth is when there is light in the shadows, an illumination that reveals something previously hidden. That aha moment, that insight, that clarity—that is illumination and awakening. I am devoted to illumination and liberation, not only of the feminine but of the self. Today is infused with those qualities, and I feel the energy is very expansive, bubbly, and fun. Sagittarians are known for being adventurous, curious, and optimistic.

This full moon is also special because it comes with a conjunction of Jupiter and Venus. These two planets are considered the benefics of the sky; they bring abundance, blessings, expansion, connection, pleasure, and beauty. Their conjunction brings an extra sweetness, an extra blessing, and extra energy for us to harness for our lives and projects.

They are also in the sign of Taurus. Taurus is the sign of the earth, of Mother Earth, of being embodied, of nature, and of being in connection with the cycles and seasons of nature. Taurus moves slowly but steadily, like nature. You can't rush cycles; you have to be in alignment and coherence with the seasons and rhythms of nature. Anything we do today will be infused with the possibility of bringing blessings to any long-term plans or visions.

Today, there is a play between Sagittarius and Taurus. Sagittarius is the seeker, interested in receiving teachings of higher learning or spiritual technologies for truth, freedom, and liberation. The cosmic joke of all of this is that everything we are seeking, we already are. I am that which I seek. Reflect on what you are seeking right now in your life. What do you want to attract?

This ties into the theme of being magnetic. What do you want to magnetize? Turn that into an "I am" statement. For example, if you are seeking expansion of vitality, resources, community, and love, turn that into "I am abundant vitality. I am resourceful community. I am love."

Play with that. You can journal with it if you feel called to. It's a beautiful practice of owning, recognizing, remembering, and embodying that which you seek.

For me, remembering and coming into our bodies is a way of becoming centered in our truth. In that moment, we achieve coherence and alignment. You feel more grounded, expansive, and connected. Coherence is when you're in alignment with your truth and essence.

When you're in that state, any action you take will be magnetic. Even without taking action, just being yourself will be magnetic. You are partnering with life, flowing with the cycles of nature, and resonating with life. Everything that comes into your field is meant to be there because of this resonance. Everything is energy and resonance. Your vibe will attract what comes into your field.

Reflect on the practices you are doing in your life that bring you back into coherence. What habits are taking you out of coherence? Are there behaviors like people-pleasing or storing resentment that pull you out of your center?

I want to share what I've been doing to come back into coherence. This isn't limited to meditation or yoga practice, although those are great. I'm all about yoga, qigong, breathwork, bodywork, acupuncture, and herbs. These are amazing tools to bring your body back into coherence, tenderness, openness, and flow.

One thing I did was rebrand my business over six months, excavating my soul with a sister friend whose company, Soul Brand, created a brand from my soul. This rebrand has brought coherence to my business message and offerings.

I also attended a potent retreat of feminine wisdom to integrate the light and shadow of the Triple Goddess while receiving the spirit plant, Kambo, from the Amazon. I will share more about this in a future podcast.

Additionally, I'm part of a shamanic business container with my mentor, Julietta, called Beyond. Being in community, receiving support, and being mentored brings me back into coherence. We're not meant to do this alone.

It's important to receive in order to give. Many women find it hard to receive, yet our pelvic bowl is a vessel meant to receive. Consciously and unconsciously, we receive a lot there. Over and over again, I've seen it in my mentorship clients and retreat women—it's hard to receive love, compliments, and support because we've been severed from our birthright as the feminine goddess of receiving. If we don't allow ourselves to receive, we are not in coherence.

How can you be more open to receiving?

I was inspired by a story from a goddess named Blue, who was asked how she attracts her man. She explained she doesn't force anything, because the feminine energetics, symbolized by the egg, do not compete or chase. The egg is simply itself, fertile and abundant, while the sperm competes to reach it.

By being ourselves, we become magnetic. Let go, purge, and release everything that suppresses your light, beauty, and power. Free yourself from self-sabotaging behaviors and limiting beliefs. This full moon in Sagittarius invites us to liberate ourselves from roles and masks we've worn for others.

Who would you be if you were just you? What would you do? What do you desire? Where do you want to travel, inward and outward? Be adventurous and curious, trusting the process of your awakening.

Stay tuned for my upcoming share about the Triple Goddess retreat. Let me know how this resonates with you and where you need support. Remember, we are not here to do it alone. We're here to walk each other home. Be open, be bold, and share.

I love you. Many full moon blessings.